How Do I Keep My Kids From Fighting Over My Estate?

How Do I Keep My Kids From Fighting Over My Estate?

As a parent, you undoubtedly want your children to have successful and happy lives. And while money is not the only measure of success, you may want to give your kids assistance when it comes to finances. Many people utilize their estate plans to leave inheritances to their children to help them with financial and other aspects of their lives.

I am worried my kids will fight over my estate!

If you have multiple children, you likely want to leave each child his or her fair share of your estate. But this task is not always as easy as it sounds. Each child may be attached to different assets, and their lives may present different hardships and successes that make certain assets more desirable for them. If you don't take these factors into account, your kids could end up fighting over your estate even if you have a well-designed estate plan - especially if probate becomes necessary. Luckily, there are certain steps you can take to help mitigate these disputes or avoid them entirely.

Will an IRA Affect My Estate Plan?

Will an IRA Affect My Estate Plan?

Even if you set up a trust, you will continue to individually own your IRA and list individual beneficiaries for it. Your trust should not be the owner of your IRA, and naming your trust as the beneficiary of your IRA accounts can cause unanticipated consequences.

However, an IRA can be an important part of estate planning, so it is important to understand what options are available and what you can do to provide the maximum benefit to you and your loved ones and other heirs.

How can I make my trust a beneficiary of an IRA?

If you do want your trust to be the beneficiary of an IRA, it is important that the trust qualify for the “look-through” rule. This rule says that the IRS must be able to determine whether there is a designated beneficiary and who that beneficiary is. The four requirements that the trust must satisfy are as follows:

A Complete Guide to the Probate Process in Oklahoma

A Complete Guide to the Probate Process in Oklahoma

Most people hear the word "probate" and start to clam up. Probate is often associated with all the worst parts of the legal system: a slow, lengthy process where nobody wins except the lawyers. The hate of probate is so widespread that Charles Dickens even dedicated most of the plot of Bleak House to describing an endless and fruitless probate.

But is it really that bad?

What is Probate?

No, of course not, and probate serves some very important purposes. Probate is the court process by which your assets are transferred to your heirs after your death. If you own real estate, such as a home, the deed to that property may be in your name alone. Legally, then, only you can sign a deed to transfer title to that property. But who has the authority to convey that property after you die? Although you may assume your spouse or children do, they have no legal authority unless and until the court gives it to them. That is where probate comes in.

The Definitive Guide to Advance Directives

The Definitive Guide to Advance Directives

An advance directive for health care is a legal document that allows you to express your wishes for end-of-life care in the event you are unable to communicate those wishes to your doctor. In Oklahoma, an advance directive covers three topics: (1) the living will, (2) the health care proxy, and (3) anatomical gifts.

Part One: The Living Will

The main portion of an advance directive is the “living will,” by which you state your preference for the use of certain treatments under certain conditions. This is the most technical part of the document, so it is important to understand what these terms mean.

Can You Have a Handwritten Will?

Can You Have a Handwritten Will?

The handwritten will is a commonly misunderstood area of estate planning.

Under Oklahoma law, a handwritten or holographic will (as it is known in Oklahoma) can be a valid testamentary instrument if it is: (1) entirely in the handwriting of the testator, (2) dated, and (3) signed by the testator.

Sounds simple enough, right?

Problems With a Handwritten Wills

Actually, it’s not quite as simple as it seems.

Oklahoma courts are very strict when it comes to wills. If a document does not strictly comply with the statutory requirements, it will be thrown out. Consider these questions:

  • What if part of the document is typed while the rest is handwritten?

  • What if some of it was written on one date, then some more was written on another?

  • Where does the signature have to be located on the document?

  • Where does the date have to be located?

  • How does the date need to be written?

  • How do you need to identify your beneficiaries?

  • How should you describe your assets?

  • Do the pages need to be stapled or clipped together?

Importantly, there must also be evidence that the Testator intended this particular document as a will.

Is the language of your handwritten document sufficient to express that intent? Or could anybody argue that the document is simply a set of notes (or a mere draft) rather than a testamentary instrument?